“The Maasai tribe of Africa greets one another by saying ‘How are the children?’ We have to recognize that all the children in our community are our children.”

Christina Sorenson: Attorney and Advocate for Foster Children at TeamChild

Christina Sorenson was in 15 different foster care homes from ages five to fifteen. Separated from her sister and eventually adopted at age fifteen, Christina has made it her life’s work to provide legal and supportive aid for children and young adults in foster care.

An attorney atTeamChildin Seattle, WA, Christina has thoughtfully incorporated her own life experiences into her mission, bringing compassion, empathy and insights into the struggles of those in a foster system that frequently denies them a voice.

Being a “foster kid” is often deeply traumatic, and this trauma can have a lasting effect, especially on a child. According to Christina, statistics show that kids in foster care experience PTSD at twice the rate of veterans who served in active combat. Having little to no personal agency to fight for themselves, kids in foster care can be further traumatized and therefore must rely on others to step in to advocate for them.

Creating a supportive tribe is one of the bedrocks of living a Brilliantly Resilient life. As adults, we can cultivate relationships on our own, but it is our personal responsibility to assist and protect the young people in our communities who may have no one to help their voices be heard. Further, we can personally flex our own resilience muscles through service, as we transfer our skill sets to help those in need.

Community engagement is essential to healthy lives both as individuals and as part of a group. One of the simplest ways to engage, according to Christina, is to become an empathetic listener and respect the voices of our children, thus becoming part of the solution.

Tune into this week’s episode of the Brilliantly Resilient podcast to learn more about Christina’s important work and for tips about how to get involved. Be sure to listen for these additional bits of Christina’s Brilliance:

• Integrating it (my experience) into my identiy now as a part of who I am is exactly how I can bring that lived experience and perspective and empathy…it allows me to listen to others and their experiences in a different way.
• I try to bring in the general public by story telling. I thought I could do it through the science and the research, but nothing changed. I had to figure out how to do it and it’s through telling the stories of these kids.
• The number one way to make sure a child will have resilience or succeed is if there is someone who deeply cares about them. And it doesn’t have to be the same person all of the time. I remember at different times different people deeply caring about me. Resiliency does require community action.
• I needed the safety net of a community because as a child, sometimes the step you take is right off a cliff.
• We want resiliency to have a destination but we have to realize it is an ongoing journey.
• We need to give children the space to talk about the things happening to them and laying a foundation of trust. And we need to affirm their reality and what’s happening in their lives.

 

Reach out to Christina at: christinasorenson@teamchild.org. Let’s be Brilliantly Resilient together!

Mary Fran

 

Mary Fran Bontempo is an award-winning 2-time TEDx and Keynote speaker, workshop presenter, author, humorist and podcast host who teaches audiences to uncover their Brilliance and Resilience 15 minutes at a time. A sought-after speaker for ERGs, BRGs, DEI, conference and association events, Mary Fran is author of From Broken to Brilliant: How to Live a Brilliantly Resilient Life, The 15 Minute Master, The Woman’s Book of Dirty Words and co-founder of the life-changing program Brilliantly Resilient. To bring Mary Fran to your company or organization, contact here.